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  I think that for the most-part, people try to be good. We try to be our best selves and try to either move through life without hurting anyone or touching too many people 🛠 But the truth – the hard truth – is that we are all bad in someone’s story.  It is the truth of life that everyone of us must deal with. We cannot please everyone or be in good books of everyone. Someone somewhere will find our behaviour inappropriate. This is the only reason And if you think that you are always right, even then you are mistaken. As the saying goes, it takes two hands clapping to make a noise. Remember, you are bad in someone’s story. Their story, not their life. It is up to you whether you continue to play that role or apologize for what may have happened in the past. As we age, certain things have less meaning. We remember them as part of our history, but they just don’t matter as much. If there is something that you feel sorry about, make amends. It is never too late if you really mean it. The

  Failure is not a step backward; it’s an excellent stepping stone to success. We never learn to move out of our comfort zone if we don’t overcome our fear of failure 🛠 “The quickest road to success is to possess an attitude toward failure of ‘no fear.’ ” We are programmed and taught from a young age that failing is bad and something to fear. I imagine everyone is scared of failing when it comes to going after their big goals and dreams; however, I also knew – though I resisted it to begin with – that I needed only to ask myself, “What's the worst that can happen if you fail? My lesson was to embrace failure and see it as a stepping stone on the way to success. Failing is an inevitable part of creating your destiny, and it gave me the platform to start my own business and follow my biggest dreams. I had nothing to lose. Now, I welcome it. After learning to deal with disappointment, I knew persistence and dedication to my goals would eventually be rewarded. Failure can act as a see

All significant and long term change starts from within and makes its way outwards 🛠 Humans are not meant to stop growing. In fact, no living thing on earth is meant to stop growing. We are all alive, reaching for the sun. My life has been a journey of self-discovery—at times a very bumpy and uneasy ride. I spent most of my life feeling angry and upset with people and hurt because the way they treated me. People would not always do what I expected of them, and this disappointed me. My life and my relationships needed to change. And I realised I had to make these changes. I needed to start taking responsibility for myself and my behaviour and I needed to stop trying to force others to change. I needed to love and accept myself. I had spent a great deal of my life pushing people away because I did not love myself. I discovered that I would only allow people to love me to the extent that I loved myself. I knew I had to be vulnerable and open to help or I would not grow or get out of this

  Psychologically speaking, addiction is all about escapism 🛠 Avoidance. Denial. Addicts run from reality, and in some cases have been running all their lives. The addict cannot tolerate reality and its vicissitudes. Neither internal reality nor external reality. They find reality repugnant, uncomfortable, and overwhelming, and prefer, like the psychotic, withdrawal into fantasy, bliss, or oblivion over reality. They seek constantly to alter subjective and objective reality to their own liking. For one thing, reality — the existential facts of life — can be both painful and anxiety-provoking. Like all of us, addicts don't like confronting pain or feeling anxiety. Not only do addicts escape reality by self-medicating with their substance of choice, but they often choose to remain in this state of mind. They choose to deny they have a problem and avoid the real underlying issues causing problems in their life. They prefer to be intoxicated with fabricated feelings of euphoria and h

  Please Comment Yes, if you find this Connecting to life.. you can share your stories, if you have encountered life on these paths ⚓️ Excerpts - Little Me In Everyone 🛠 Sporadically life puts you in a challenging position, in a place where you feel you are not ready to be in, not substantial enough to handle, not emotionally primed to work with. It pushes you beyond the boundary that you had placed for yourself. Life puts you in situations that you feel unrehearsed for - and the reality is, no matter how long you wait, there are some situations that you never can be ready for. There are some phases that you simply need to be shoved towards in order to mature and flourish especially when it comes to getting married. Vikas was simply finding himself having to taste the bitterness of difficulty in order to gain the awareness that his soul truly needed. In his life many times he was pushed out of his comfort zone, tested against his own boundaries, and learning sometimes through benedic

  If you are ready to begin the process of truly understanding who you are meant to be than don’t wait. Your search ends here 🛠 For personal appointment and coaching session please refer to the website : www.life-mechanic.com Tap ❤️and Tag your friends follow  @lifemechanic__  for more . Who am I? What do I believe in? What is my purpose? What fills me with joy and wonder? These are questions that I am just beginning to understand after forty-two years of living my life, and I have to admit that getting there has been extremely difficult. The hardest part for me was just knowing where to begin. After much therapy, meditation, self-reflection, and reading, I asked myself five big questions that served as a launch pad to begin my journey of self-discovery. But remember, this question isn’t really about money at all. It’s more about thinking outside the limits we tend to put on our aspirations and actions because things seem out of our reach financially. You may not be able to do those e

  For personal appointment and coaching session please refer to the website. www.life-mechanic.com Tap ❤️and Tag your friends follow  @lifemechanic__  for more . Most of us do take good care of all physical elements of life like : the best exercise, gymnasium, overall physical health, the best comfortable car, the best schools for our kids, the best quality food, the best clothing, the best possible mobile etc. While all these are definitely important for the comfort and well being of our physical body. Ultimately, it is our thoughts, and not the physical body, that defines our destiny. Who and what we surround ourselves with is who and what we become,” yeah, that is the truth. That's right, that means if you want to be successful, you need to be surrounding yourself with what your version of success looks like. It is your thoughts that will give you a vision of the life, it is your thoughts that will conceptualise the dreams for you and also help you strategise the execution of th