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Existence is what transpires when we are busy making other plans 🛠 In life, all of us endure in a relentless thinking mode, underlining our minds on thousands of topics; most of which being irrelevant. We keep harping on so many unknown events or tribulations we might have to face in future. We plan years ahead and while we are busy doing all that, life is playing its own movie; making us a spectator of an unanticipated story line. It throws such challenges on us which are nowhere in our scheme of things, but that is what the real life is; mysterious & ambiguous and the sooner we comprehend this fact the better it is for us. Vikas was struggling hard to save money for his wedding, deep down he was satisfied and happy the way things are progressing, suddenly his slant to life was changed, he became more instantaneous in his approach while balancing his responsibilities, inspite of day long strenuous work schedule, he seemed quite happy and content. #littlemeineveryone   #book   #bo

If you are ready to begin the process of truly understanding and changing your mindset. Don’t wait, connect and let the journey of happy life begins. For personal appointment and coaching session please refer to the website. www.life-mechanic.com Tap ❤️and Tag your friends follow  @lifemechanic__  for more . It is said that “All The Problems Are Illusions Of Mind“. Your mind plays a crucial role in enhancing your future and life🛠 If you make up your mind to fight in adverse situations and try to keep a positive mindset, you will achieve whatever you want in life. If you are in a position in life where you want to achieve but you feel a little stuck. Really understanding this mindset change can really help propel your life into the place you want it to go. This is super important in fostering the growth mindset and becoming a powerhouse of personal development. Every individual has the the ability to succeed in whatever it is that they want in life. The only thing holding you back is y

  I think that for the most-part, people try to be good. We try to be our best selves and try to either move through life without hurting anyone or touching too many people 🛠 But the truth – the hard truth – is that we are all bad in someone’s story.  It is the truth of life that everyone of us must deal with. We cannot please everyone or be in good books of everyone. Someone somewhere will find our behaviour inappropriate. This is the only reason And if you think that you are always right, even then you are mistaken. As the saying goes, it takes two hands clapping to make a noise. Remember, you are bad in someone’s story. Their story, not their life. It is up to you whether you continue to play that role or apologize for what may have happened in the past. As we age, certain things have less meaning. We remember them as part of our history, but they just don’t matter as much. If there is something that you feel sorry about, make amends. It is never too late if you really mean it. The

  Failure is not a step backward; it’s an excellent stepping stone to success. We never learn to move out of our comfort zone if we don’t overcome our fear of failure 🛠 “The quickest road to success is to possess an attitude toward failure of ‘no fear.’ ” We are programmed and taught from a young age that failing is bad and something to fear. I imagine everyone is scared of failing when it comes to going after their big goals and dreams; however, I also knew – though I resisted it to begin with – that I needed only to ask myself, “What's the worst that can happen if you fail? My lesson was to embrace failure and see it as a stepping stone on the way to success. Failing is an inevitable part of creating your destiny, and it gave me the platform to start my own business and follow my biggest dreams. I had nothing to lose. Now, I welcome it. After learning to deal with disappointment, I knew persistence and dedication to my goals would eventually be rewarded. Failure can act as a see

All significant and long term change starts from within and makes its way outwards 🛠 Humans are not meant to stop growing. In fact, no living thing on earth is meant to stop growing. We are all alive, reaching for the sun. My life has been a journey of self-discovery—at times a very bumpy and uneasy ride. I spent most of my life feeling angry and upset with people and hurt because the way they treated me. People would not always do what I expected of them, and this disappointed me. My life and my relationships needed to change. And I realised I had to make these changes. I needed to start taking responsibility for myself and my behaviour and I needed to stop trying to force others to change. I needed to love and accept myself. I had spent a great deal of my life pushing people away because I did not love myself. I discovered that I would only allow people to love me to the extent that I loved myself. I knew I had to be vulnerable and open to help or I would not grow or get out of this

  Psychologically speaking, addiction is all about escapism 🛠 Avoidance. Denial. Addicts run from reality, and in some cases have been running all their lives. The addict cannot tolerate reality and its vicissitudes. Neither internal reality nor external reality. They find reality repugnant, uncomfortable, and overwhelming, and prefer, like the psychotic, withdrawal into fantasy, bliss, or oblivion over reality. They seek constantly to alter subjective and objective reality to their own liking. For one thing, reality — the existential facts of life — can be both painful and anxiety-provoking. Like all of us, addicts don't like confronting pain or feeling anxiety. Not only do addicts escape reality by self-medicating with their substance of choice, but they often choose to remain in this state of mind. They choose to deny they have a problem and avoid the real underlying issues causing problems in their life. They prefer to be intoxicated with fabricated feelings of euphoria and h

  Please Comment Yes, if you find this Connecting to life.. you can share your stories, if you have encountered life on these paths ⚓️ Excerpts - Little Me In Everyone 🛠 Sporadically life puts you in a challenging position, in a place where you feel you are not ready to be in, not substantial enough to handle, not emotionally primed to work with. It pushes you beyond the boundary that you had placed for yourself. Life puts you in situations that you feel unrehearsed for - and the reality is, no matter how long you wait, there are some situations that you never can be ready for. There are some phases that you simply need to be shoved towards in order to mature and flourish especially when it comes to getting married. Vikas was simply finding himself having to taste the bitterness of difficulty in order to gain the awareness that his soul truly needed. In his life many times he was pushed out of his comfort zone, tested against his own boundaries, and learning sometimes through benedic