Break + Up

You'r not here to see how much pain you can take or handle at any given point in life,  you'r here for you first, It isn't Selfish to think of Life that way, it is the self full & self aware one.

My friend was crying hopelessly over his lost relationship for endless days, as if the world has ended and no light can bring life back to him, darkness engulfed him with Guilt, Resentment, Anger, and Tears became shadow of broken world.

Little Me" was Tamed and subdued by misfortune, not knowing how to express and un-bottle the emotions,  after long pause the room was filled with void thoughts, at times it is difficult to see your transformation while you are going through it, a friend or a coach can bring back light of love and Hope.  

when we hear the word Breakup, the fear associated with it is Loss, Grief and Pain. 

we could never understand the deep meaning hidden in the words, because it became cheapened by widespread misuse and fancied many a times.

It is easy to look back and question decision one has made in the past, but its unfair to keep shuffling between thoughts &  punishing yourself for them, cannot blame yourself for not knowing back then what you know now.

We all Break but the most important part of "Breaking+UP"is deciding how you respond to its inevitable nature of happening, sometimes its Relationship, sometime Success, and at times Self, past will keep repeating if we don't learn to move on with experience and learning, not to fall in the trap of Guilt, Agony and Pain.

We never focused on the complete term, its says Break" and then Up"means that after every break we have the option to stand up for a better tomorrow, if we understand and live by the principle of Breaking-Up"we will not only conquer our problems  but may go on building a a safe and secure future better than past realities.

Breakup's are OK.   Moving on is OK.  Starting Fresh is OK.  Being Aloof for a while is OK.

What is "NOT OK"is living in the past, not able to move on from a stage where you are not Happy, Respected & Valued , there you are "NOT OK".

Let go off the need to trying to figure out all at once, and making sense of it.

Allow yourself to finally Break" so that you can experience what it feels to be HELD.

If you have to Break.

BreakUP the shackles of self holding beliefs.

BreakUP from worrying about future and live the Moment.

BreakUP from all those Dreams which were not seeded on the grounds of Reality.

Breakup from all Judgements holding you from moving ahead.

Stand-up for yourself once and raise the bar, let the past Trauma, Pain, Betrayal, Injustice become your stepping stone in understanding and building the "New You".

You get what you Focus on, so Focus on what you want.

you are an Alchemist, you turn your pain & suffering into you'r power of Healing, Loving & Growth.

Don't Gaslight" you'r Potential & talents for the insignificant others. 🛠