Unhook Yourself




I am afraid to be Happy, because whenever i get happy something bad will always happen.

overhearing this conversation, few friends were deabating on a coffee table in starbucks few months back, resonated deep at emotional level and left me this daunting thought for few days before i could sum up and exclude the bad omen.

If at first you don't succeed, Try, Try Again, that testament fills the void, we keep struggling without knowing that we are "HOOKED", by powerful thoughts of Resentment, Pain, betrayal, and Injustice.

Being hooked to anger & resentment will only create Roadblocks" in the path unfolding ahead.
Energy that we project will be Mirrored back as Experience in our reality.

Fish when hooked can't get away, similarly when we are hooked to Difficult feelings and thoughts, it pulls us away from the ocean of our "Core Values". Our deepest desires for what we wan to be, how we want to treat others & the world around us, it does not resonate to our inner being, we withdraw ourself and stay away from the people we love the most.

As if the Hook is pulling away from the Reality of Life, transcending in a dark tunnel of endless thoughts & thrown into the abyss of Emotional Strom , 

We become hollow as if all powers are withdrawn, floundering in quicksand of emotions over and over again only sink us deeper, as these emotions flare, insecurities arise, it became far more difficult to navigate out.

Once you "Unhook" the Fish and throw it back in ocean , it will again find its way back home.
Similarly when we walk out from a bout of cloudy thinking we see "Silver Lining"

Unhooking from difficult feelings and suppressed emotions enables us to step in the reality of light and express Joy of being Alive".

The Greatest 'LOVE STORY" you could tell is the one about you, fall in the process of becoming best version of yourself .

Begin with creating a Dream" for yourself so big, that it pushes you to become a person that you always wanted to be, trust that every step you make is taking you to MORE".

You are Enough.  You are Capable.  You are Ready.   You are There.

Be Careful not to become slave to your emotions and get Hooked".
Learn to Navigate life through Maturity and Balance, instead of Overreacting and getting carried away with Intense and Painful Emotions.


Be Gentle and Kind when you are "Unhooking" 
Healing is not "Linear "























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