Don't Replace Imagining With Settling


 


Life is nothing else than a Dream. The way to Improve it is by imagining a beautiful dream.


Don’t settle for what you get after a compromised state 🛠

They lack the confidence, dreams, ambition and drive necessary to succeed. Many times, people get so frustrated with life that they feel that settling for something will create the happiness they desire.

Life is way too short to settle for anything less than what we truly want.

People settle for mediocrity in many aspects of their lives on a daily basis. We accept jobs we hate, we deal with friends who let us down and we let our significant others get away with sh*t.

Why do people choose to be complacent instead of moving where there are better opportunities?

Life is just one big cost-benefit analysis; we make decisions by comparing the outcomes of different courses of actions.
People assume that certain actions should not be taken unless the benefits outweigh the costs.

It is the fundamental evaluation behind practically every decision a person will make in his or her life.

People are terrified of change, failure and taking risks. This is one of the main reasons people settle in life.

It’s not about unrealistic goals or perfection. It is about changing the things you can to be happy.

Not simply drifting along in life and complaining. It is far easier to settle than it is to leave our comfort zone.

We settle in our relationships too because we are scared to be alone and lose the stability a relationship offers.

It's Better To Be Alone With High Standards Than Settle Just To Be With Someone. When you choose to act out of fear, panic, or impatience, the results are always bad , especially in relationships. ... You'll feel happier and more confident in yourself.

There are always better options out there, but too many people have low self-esteem, which prevents them from realizing this.

It's easier sometimes to be stuck in a familiar rut or habit, albeit a depressing one. Than to look outside the habit and have a life that is more desirable 🛠

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