When You Focus On Hurt, You Suffer... When You Focus On Lesson Learned, You Grow



There would be times in your life when you would be hurt, and more often than not, it would be from the person close to you 🛠


Whether it is a broken relationship or betrayal or something else, everyone gets hurt by someone at some point in their life. The real question is how you get over it and move on in life. You need to learn from it and move on.

Not everything will go according to the plan, and it is what life is all about. You may have invested too much time and emotion in a relationship and went to hell and back to make a relationship work, but if it is not meant to be, it won’t be.

Accepting the reality as it is what maturity is all about.

The only real mistake we make is when we don’t learn from it. When we learn from our mistakes and implement the lessons learned in our lives, it continues to get better with time. It makes us wiser and helps us grow.

It is why we often laugh at our reactions to situations years ago compared to how we would have handled it at present. Irrespective of how well you mean to others, everyone you come across in life won’t reciprocate equally.

Whether you choose to be happy or sad or look for problems or solutions is completely your choice. When you make the right choice, you grow, and when you make the wrong choice, you continue to dig your grave deeper into the well of sorrow, sadness & anxiety.

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