Lifemechanic 🛠

There would be times in your life when you would be hurt, and more often than not, it would be from the person close to you 🛠 Whether it is a broken relationship or betrayal or something else, everyone gets hurt by someone at some point in their life. The real question is how you get over it and move on in life. You need to learn from it and move on. Not everything will go according to the plan, and it is what life is all about. You may have invested too much time and emotion in a relationship and went to hell and back to make a relationship work, but if it is not meant to be, it won’t be. Accepting the reality as it is what maturity is all about. The only real mistake we make is when we don’t learn from it. When we learn from our mistakes and implement the lessons learned in our lives, it continues to get better with time. It makes us wiser and helps us grow. It is why we often laugh at our reactions to situations years ago compared to how we would have handled it at present. Irrespe

We really want to yell, “I’m not okay!” 🛠 But instead we say, I’m good. I’m okay. I’m fine. I’m alright. Ever said these words in response to someone asking, “How are you?” Were you being honest? Sometimes I’m not good, okay, fine, or alright. Sometimes I’m overwhelmed, sad, hurt, and scared. In our world, we so commonly respond with the stock answer that life is good and coasting along, but in reality, we all know that things aren’t always okay. Sometimes it feels like society says you should be always happy, and that showing your sadness is a sign of weakness. We all have good and bad days. No one can be perfectly happy all of the time, that is not human. One day you feel on top of the world, the next you are down. While I am still trying to accept this myself, I know that it is part of life and whether or not others choose to show it, it still happens. Life is not always great and it’s time to stop pretending that it is. Being authentic that life can be hard at times makes you real

Everyone who has succeeded has failed considerably more than they've won 🛠 They succeed in light of the fact that they realize that the mystery isn't the means by which you start, it's the manner by which you finish. They realize it's OK to flop yet it's not OK to stop. Some people start failing early in life, or at least early in their career. The issue is, they acknowledge that disappointment and simply quit attempting. They are genuinely alive, however expertly and intellectually they are dead. Indeed, even youthful experts who are 25 to 30 years of age can get this chip on their shoulder and they essentially abandon their fantasies since they are terrified to come up short or to bomb once more. Simultaneously, when you find that achievement, don't release it to your head. Try not to quit taking a stab at more and better achievement. The battles, disappointments, you have today are shaping the quality and information you require for what's to come. God g

  It’s Not Just What You Say, It’s How You Say It 🛠 The wrong tone may imply negative things you didn’t actually say. Our voice is our presence, just like you hear a roaring sound coming from waves that are crashing to the shore and know that the ocean is present. Since we were born, the very first time we opened our mouths we announced our persona, our presence was made known, we let out our first cry to say. Everything in nature has a sound, thus has a presence. Some sounds in creation are really loud and clear and some are subsonic, you can not hear them. Everything that exists is here to powerfully communicate by transforming whoever chooses to engage. The challenge for us all is how can we communicate in a way that we can connect, build trust, and create lasting change in our interaction with audiences and clients by using the beautiful organ of our soul called the VOICE. It's as simple as that never focus on what you want to say but FOCUS on how you will say.

  Self-uncertainty can be a disturbing and convincing voice that keeps you down 🛠 Some of the time be valuable as it helps you to soberly see your current limitations or simply recognize a bad idea. But mostly, it holds you back in life. So how can you get around that, how can you overcome those times of self-doubt so that you can move forward once again? By having supportive people in your life. It is a critical component to success. It is bad enough when our own thinking fuels the seeds of doubt; we surely don’t need those around us sharing their limiting beliefs and negative views of our potential. The coaching for today is to see these individuals as toxic, and to remove them completely from our Life.

Remember that life and time will move with or without you. It’s OK to stay still from time to time to collect your thoughts and re-evaluate your decisions. However if you want to grow and progress, you’ll have to keep moving forward, even if that means often facing uncomfortable situations 🛠 Life is a process and you don’t have to feel down or depressed just because you aren’t exactly where you think you should be.Life can feel overwhelming at times, remember that you are often given the tools and resources to overcome any obstacle that comes your way & remember happy memories and experiences are what make life worth living. Try to also cherish your hardships as they are what makes life memorable.

This Is Your Life.. No One Is Coming To Save You, This Life Is 100% Your Responsibility 🛠 I’m sure you have heard that quote “No one is coming to save you, this life is 100% your responsibility” There’s so much truth to this statement that a lot of people don’t let sink in. You can reach out to as many people who love you and support you in this time of need, but the only person who is going to make that switch in the brain is You. So yes, reaching out to loved ones for support is a great avenue to go down, but are they living your life? Are they the ones waking up in your body every morning? Do they have the same mindset as you? No they don’t. They can only do so much to help you. They can make the effort to give you advice and comfort you, but 100% of the responsibility is on you to make the transformation in your life. You really only have two choices: To keep living hurt, sad, and looking for advice when you have already received tons of it and pretty much give up or You can take