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Dress To Impress Others.. Thoughts To Impress Self

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Thoughts are the starting point of all achievement, not a hope, not a wish, but a right positive thought which can transcends everything Did you know that thoughts that you repeat often, eventually, affect your behaviour and actions, and create changes in your life in accordance with these thoughts. Every morning If you keep thinking about problems and failure, you attract these things into your life. We Dress to impress but what about Thoughts ? No matter what the occasion is a reflection of your inner drive, your self-worth and character. Taking the few extra minutes in the morning to look your best. Even if you're not leaving the house changes your path to productivity. When you look good, you feel good and perform well. similarly every thought we generate in morning even while dressing, decides the rest of the day. How Changing Your Thoughts Can Change Your Life ? People who constantly think how poor they are, how difficult are their lives, and how more difficult they are going

At Times Your Biggest Enemy Is Your Memory.. Let It Go

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Are you Living on autopilot every day The same old routine. You don't act depressed or angry, you act happy so nobody can ask you "Are you doing okay today?" "Is there anything I can do to make you feel better?". You are unable to breathe at times, it feels like you are suffocating to death in your own skin. You are so unsettled with yourself that you want to tear your own skin apart so you can finally feel free again. Your memories begins to be your worst enemy. You listen to all the voices inside yelling at all the negative things you don't want to hear, but you welcome it because you don't know what more you can do. All the memories you have made, the happiness that you had just disappears and fades away without any warning. It's not fair. You were so happy, laughing, smiling that no evil could enter. In a split second the walls tumbled down and your anxiety and depression take over. You’r back to square one from where you thought you got healed.

Age Does Not Makes You Mature.. Responsibility Does

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A mature person's decisions are based on character and practicality, not feelings and emotions Mature people—students and adults—live by values. They have principles that guide their decisions. They are able to progress beyond merely reacting to life's options. Mature people are able to accept themselves for who they are; they practice kindness even in the face of their shortcomings. People that are emotionally repressed as children are often thought of as being "mature" for their age, until they get older and suddenly the cracks in their psyche start shining through, and then people view them as "immature" because they haven't learned how to express themselves efficiently. What can be done ? Start by taking responsibility for your actions. Try to reason from a different perspective before taking any action. Avoid risky behavior. Improve your self-awareness and self-understanding, and keep an open mind. You can seek to improve yourself and grow as an ind

You Learn A Lot About People When They Don't Get What They Want From You

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It's not so much that most people don't get what they want. it's more like people do get what they want and then become discontented with the fallouts Oftentimes a persons true colors will show when they don’t get their way. Someone who seems nice, polite and level headed might turn hostile and rude when they’re inconvenienced or told no I think the ability to feel unsatisfied goes on and on like that. You really never end up getting what you want because your wants are always changing … as are you. Everything that we aspire or dream of achieving has a price tag attached to it. The issue arises whether we are aflame to pay that price or not! The price it demands is in the form of hard work, dedication and sincerity towards your goals. Honest efforts and sincere dedication never get wasted. Also, there are times when people have everything they need but feel that they should be reaching higher. So, after they have what they thought they wanted, it turns out that it's not

Don't Replace Imagining With Settling

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  Life is nothing else than a Dream. The way to Improve it is by imagining a beautiful dream. Don’t settle for what you get after a compromised state  They lack the confidence, dreams, ambition and drive necessary to succeed. Many times, people get so frustrated with life that they feel that settling for something will create the happiness they desire. Life is way too short to settle for anything less than what we truly want. People settle for mediocrity in many aspects of their lives on a daily basis. We accept jobs we hate, we deal with friends who let us down and we let our significant others get away with sh*t. Why do people choose to be complacent instead of moving where there are better opportunities? Life is just one big cost-benefit analysis; we make decisions by comparing the outcomes of different courses of actions. People assume that certain actions should not be taken unless the benefits outweigh the costs. It is the fundamental evaluation behind practically every decision

When you believe you Deserve it.. The Universe will serve it.

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  Believe in yourself and you will achieve your dreams ๐Ÿ›  Everything depends on you. If you think that you can’t be successful in life – you are right, you won’t be successful. But if you think that you will be successful – you are right too, you will be successful. You become what you believe! Believe in yourself, do your best and God will do the rest ๐Ÿ›  What you hold near and what you truly think is what you experience in this world. Make it a constant habit to be positive, always give things your best shot and go above & beyond what any ‘normal person’ would. Believe you deserve it and the universe will serve it, so keep things on the up and up and you’ve got all your bases covered. Does the universe actually make things happen ๐Ÿ›  Grace knows compassion, and its knows that for the divine providential care of our very being, we no longer need to place ourselves, or others, in the centre of our Universe. ... It does not “conspire to make things happen” your way, but rather make yo

Nothing can destroy Iron.. But it's own Rust Can. Similarly no one can destroy you.. But your mindset can.

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  We can melt iron but we cannot destroy it, as we have heard that mass can neither be created nor be destroyed. But the Iron rust leads to the destruction of iron very rapidly. ... The rust flakes off and exposes fresh iron to the atmosphere, which is further corroded, leading to complete destruction of the IRON๐Ÿ›  Your personality is known for its strength, resilience and the ability to stand tall in the wake of challenges. However, just like iron, your personality is also prone to certain challenges. Unless you provide the due care necessary to take care of it, you are heading towards a natural demise Rust beats iron. Entropy beats your personality ๐Ÿ›  Entropy is natural failure. If there is no conscious progress on any activity, it is headed for a natural demise. Whether it is your habits, convictions, beliefs or even the items that give you confidence. Ever think of things where you feel “Oh god, I used to be so good at it”. But you are not able to muster the same effect anymore? We

When you run alone, it's called a Race and when God runs with you, it's called Grace

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  "When you run alone, it's called a race and when God runs with you, it's called grace." The word grace actually mean, "God runs with you in the race." Grace is something you do not work for nor do you deserve it, it is not you but God that works in you and that is grace. The only way to truly win this race of life is to realize there is no race ๐Ÿ›  Winning is stopping. Going within. Finding happiness within yourself ๐Ÿ›  True satisfaction can only be found inside. When we can be alone with ourselves, be at peace, and feel a deeper connection, this is what we have really been racing to find. Running toward the next accomplishment will never be able to provide this. It will only take us further away from what we’re hoping to feel. So what happens when we stop? It involves going deeper within, which can be a scary prospect for many. Choosing to constantly be on the go is easier. It dulls the pain. It means not having to really take a look at yourself. A superfic

We really Never Encounter The World, All We Keep Experiencing Is Our Mind

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There are many trends and patterns founded in the past related to our experience & mind, and the Historians did a commendable job of highlighting them. Hostorians believed that despite all that has and continues to change in our external environment, the real battle is still internal ๐Ÿ›  Real change doesn’t happen until we face our minds and our thoughts. Information alone doesn’t make our thinking better. We also have to understand and update the way our minds process this information. How we think affects everything from our ability to solve problems to how we understand meaning, value, and purpose. One of the reasons it’s so hard to change our minds about things is that our brains are stuck in these mental habit loops, which tend to look at information from a singular point of view. Our brains have learned something in one context, so they mistakenly apply it to others, mixing up the triggers that lead to routine thoughts. We’re all capable of overpowering these habit loops, of c

No One Cares About Your Story Until You Win... So WIN

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  If you want the world to pay attention to what you are doing, then you need to do something truly significant—something spectacular! Regardless of the form of delivery—whether it is a product or service, you must be able to capture people’s heart and imagination ๐Ÿ›  In this journey of life YOU ARE ALONE and you also better get used to the word NO or NOT GOOD ENOUGH see many of us are so afraid of rejection that we are busy accepting the lowest available standards just to fit in. Listen NO ONE cares about your story until you win..people will cheer you when the boat sets sail but will jump out when the seas get rough which is OK because God did not give them this dream he gave you..people who you thought will last the mile shall leave but that’s NOT the end of your story its the end of their part in your story. many will want to be part of your story when you reach the promised land don’t take it personally its just how things are. You will loose friends because the journey is not comf

Don't Sell Your Soul For Little Happiness

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The term “soul” refers to something larger than the “heart.” While the "heart" is mainly focused on love, the SOUL refers to an individual's whole personality and life in general ๐Ÿ›  There is some little voice inside that tells us what we already know is right or wrong. Unfortunately for some, when it is talking, they aren’t listening. And that’s when the trouble begins. Whether in our personal life or business life, it’s important to listen to that little voice. The chief query of the immature, greedy, selfish, and sensuous has always been, "What's in it for me? Will this please me? Will it ease me?" Lately many people seem to want these pleasures without sense of responsibility, even abandoning or utterly neglecting spouses and children in the name of doing their thing. But independence is not the most mature state of being - it's only a middle position on the way to interdependence, the most advanced and mature state. People sell their soul in such sma

Making Mistakes Is Better Than Faking Silence

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"Making mistakes and collecting practical experience is an unavoidable part of our lives and certainly something that helps us grow mentally and spiritually". ๐Ÿ›  Well, We all know too many people who are afraid of making mistakes because doing so makes them feel horrible about themselves. But the truth is, mistakes can be like gifts. Any successful person can tell you that without the mistakes they made on their journey, they wouldn’t be where they are today. We can gain so much knowledge from our mistakes, and all it takes is the willingness. Mistakes helps us understand that our biggest enemy can be ourselves. We learn to reflect on our own mistakes. By overcoming our shortcomings, we become stronger people as we come to know our own strengths and weaknesses. It wouldn’t be as easy for us to understand ourselves without the mistakes we have made. People who are ashamed of their mistakes and can’t accept the fact that what happened, can’t be changed, usually transfer the bla

In The End... All I Learned Is How To Be Strong Alone

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Honestly being alone isn’t that bad. It may seem pretty scary at first , but soon you will realise what you can do alone, who you truly are ๐Ÿ›  You will just realize that as you grow older, you had to accept that some people will not always be there for you every time you need them. No matter how wide you opened your door, they will never come in. No matter how loud you shout their names, they wouldn’t turn around and face you. You already accepted the fact that they also have their own problems-to solve. That sometimes they need to save themselves first. It wasn’t being a bad friend nor a selfish one. But it was just us human beings wanting and searching for a mean to survive. You will learn so much about yourself, you will find that you are a good all on your own, that you get to enjoy whatever the experience is because you are doing YOU. SO, in the end all you have to learn is " HOW TO BE STRONG ALONE ".It isn't selfish (or weird). It is important self care. Keep learni

Love What You Have

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How much you focus on what you lack ๐Ÿ›  Do you always notice your single status, the perfect job you don’t have or the house you don’t yet own? We are all guilty of seeing what we don’t have rather than focusing on what we do have, but keeping up the habit of doing this is what’s keeping you from true happiness. Do you Really Appreciate what you HAVE ๐Ÿ›  Gratefulness and appreciation for what we have may sound like a typical clichéd way to achieve happiness, but in doing so you are training your mind to focus on the abundance in your life rather than what is lacking. When we focus on lack, we feel like failures. In fact, by doing this we are only making comparisons with others who are on a completely different path from ourselves. True appreciation for the people and things in your life will help you to realize just how much you do have. Whether it’s small things like the roof over your head, food in the fridge, a great friend you can talk to about anything, or having a hot shower every

Great Achievements Take Time

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"Keep trying" is the rule that must be followed to be successful at anything๐Ÿ›  Your success will always be connected with your actions. Just keep moving towards your goal.You'll make mistakes but don't ever quit. You may even have to hang on after others have let go. Persistence means taking pains to overcome every obstacle, to do all that's necessary to reach your goal. In the end, the only people who fail are those that do not try. Your future is a big adventure. Just remember, all great achievement takes time. If you ask me, where humans go wrong is with their lack of patience. That, and their recent acquired taste for instant gratification. The reality is that things take time. Richard Branson didn’t become a millionaire overnight. Madonna was not an overnight success. David Beckham was not born a superstar footballer & even ROLLS ROYCE takes 8 months to build and TOYOTA is build in 18 Hours. Sometimes you feel as though your dreams will never be achieved,